January 28, 2008 by Heidi
Why Part 2?
Since finishing and polishing up my last post, I’ve had a number of new things come to mind (which always seems to happen), and also thought about what was missing from the first post that I’d intended to put in. So I figured instead of editing the original, I’d write a sequel — hopefully one that won’t be so long as the first!
I’ll begin by clarifying that I am NOT a Democrat. I can see how it may appear from my last post that I am one, since I only mentioned my choices between Hillary and Barack. I began my political life as a Republican, changed some years later to Democrat after seeing how petty and hard-hearted the GOP was, and a while later I saw that the Democratic party wasn’t much better. I toyed with the idea of joining the Libertarian party, but then I decided I didn’t want to be affiliated with or limited by any one party, since there were components of all the parties I agreed with. It seems to me that as well-meaning as a political party starts out, after a certain amount of time the party becomes more important than the people they are supposed to represent.
The one thing I am against is the war in Iraq. In my mind, the way this was executed and bungled has adversely affected countless lives when it didn’t have to be that way. Certainly Saddam Hussein was a nasty, cruel dictator, but there are cruel dictators in many other countries we don’t feel the need to bomb and take out. Some of them are even our “allies.” I could go on and on about how I feel about this war, but I don’t want my ADD to get me off track! My point is that all of the Republican candidates — except for one — are proponents of the Iraq war and of keeping our young men and women there indefinitely. I respect Dr. Paul’s vision of getting America back to its constitutional roots, but many of his beliefs are either too radical to make actual change or they discount the majority of Americans who have spent their entire lives accustomed to the system that he won’t be able to win the nomination. He is well-suited to congress, to keep fighting the good Constitutional fight from within that body.
So after a lot of research over the past year of all the candidates, I was pretty much left with the Democrats who now remain. I really liked most of them, but now the top contenders are Clinton, Edwards, and Obama, like it or not.
The reason I didn’t mention John Edwards in my previous article is that I have ruled him out as President. I have a lot of respect and admiration for him, because he is such a leader on social issues that I care deeply about, but unfortunately he has pigeonholed himself to only represent the poor and disenfranchised; that is his whole platform, it seems. He hasn’t spent a lot of time talking about other issues that affect the country, issues that are just as important as solving poverty. I don’t know what all the departments and roles in the government are, but I would hope that Edwards gets placed as the head of some department where he can make a difference in this area.
I’d also like to make it clear that if Obama is the nominee, I will not be at all disappointed. I could be concerned because of his lack of experience, but that is mitigated by the fact that he will surround himself with more seasoned people on ‘both sides of the aisle’ to help him learn the ropes. If I were 10 years younger, I would be behind Barack Obama all the way. He appeals to that younger part of me that is full of hope and idealism and optimism. He really touches my heart, which speaks highly of his ability as a motivational speaker. It’s impossible even in my older age not to get excited when I hear him speak; this is why I had to remove myself from the emotion and completely use my cognitive discernment in asking myself who would be the best president in a practical sense.
Something regarding Hillary Clinton that I had intended to discuss but neglected to mention in my first post is about her experience as a First Lady. I did touch upon what she did while she was First Lady of Arkansas as well as of the U.S. What I didn’t talk about was how much a woman learns from her husband regarding his job, which I think is quite significant.
Certainly Hillary was probably not at the high-level meetings and did not have access to the big red nuclear button, but that does not by any means discount what she did learn and what influence she did have as Bill Clinton’s wife. As quoted in my previous post, Hillary was the first wife of a President who took up residence in the west wing of the White House rather than the typical east wing. This alone means she was privy to many discussions that went on in that wing just by virtue of her physical proximity. Also, husbands naturally bounce ideas and discussions off of their wives, especially in long-term marriages, so even the higher-level topics were most likely discussed. People can make all the assumptions they want to about the Clintons in their personal relationship, but one thing is very clear: Bill had (and still has) a great amount of respect for Hillary as an intelligent, competent woman, and you can’t be married to someone like that without having conversations about matters other than what color the curtains should be or who is coming to tea that afternoon.
As an example, although I am nowhere near as capable and intelligent as Hillary Clinton is, I’m also not a dimwit and I do have my own set of talents. My husband has been a hand-tool wholesaler for decades, and as a result, I know more about tools than the average man. I’ve voluntarily helped him with his business for a number of years, and have learned more than I ever would have otherwise just by association — and I’ve never been terribly passionate about tools the way Hillary is about politics, so you can be sure that she has absorbed a ton of useful information both passively and actively.
Another thing I like about Hillary that I neglected to mention before is her diverse political background. I was very happy that Arnold Schwarzenegger was elected California’s governor for much the same reason. He is a Republican who is married to a Kennedy, which is guaranteed to bring balance to his politics. I am sure he discusses politics and issues with his wife, and listens to her when she gives her opinion. Hillary was born into a very conservative household, and at some point in her life she used her brain to give weight to her political beliefs by not staying a Republican just because her family was. She actually took a good look at her beliefs and found that they did not agree with everything she had been raised with. Despite this, she understands why Republicans believe what they do, even if she disagrees, and she has some compassion and respect for even the most right-wing conservatives because of her upbringing in that environment. This is probably why she is not seen as a true liberal, and rightly so.
Comments
Finally, I was happy to see how quickly others had commented on my last post, especially considering this is my very first venture into Blogland. I’d like to take the time to respond to each of them, since I welcome all sorts of discussions and hope they continue.
maryblu Says:
January 27, 2008 at 7:50 pmVery good post, but I do not find Hillary a very admirable woman, She has many great achievments under her belt, but she is not the type of woman I want my granddaughter to see as the first woman president. She acts like it is her right, not a privilage. I have watched her close since her decsion to run was made and I have lost any respect I may have had for her at one time.
Maryblu, thank you for your compliment on my post! I worked on it most of the day, and your first three words meant a lot to me — as did the rest of your post, even though we don’t share the same opinion. I myself have five stepdaughters (their half-sister recently had a baby, so that would be my first almost-grandchild), and I am always concerned about role models. I personally believe that Hillary Clinton is a great role model for my girls, because she is strong and capable and doesn’t let fear or intimidation or male dominance keep her from achieving her dreams. This is a bit personal for me, because their biological mother has been unfortunately dependent on males for most of her life, and she is an important person in their lives. Of course, it’s possible that this was how she was raised and due to harsh circumstances in her own life, but I’m very passionate about my stepdaughters learning how to hold their own and be responsible for themselves and independent.
You also said, “She acts like it [being elected president] is her right, not a privilage.” I understand how you feel, especially based on the statements she made last year in the media, like when she corrected a reporter who said “If you’re President…” by saying, “When I’m President.” You could say that she feels entitled, or you could say that she’s very confident. But is this skewed because she is a woman, or because her spouse is a former President who used this same sort of confidence? Is it wrong or ugly for a woman to be confident? I’ve heard ALL of the other candidates display the exact same type of confidence; is it different for them because they are men, or because none of them are married to a former President? That’s a tough call. I would like to believe that on her own, gender or spouse affiliation should not matter, but it probably does matter.
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demolition65 Says:
January 27, 2008 at 8:30 pmAs Maryblu has stated: She has credentials, but she is a miserable human being, married to a possible MORE miserable human being, whom she enables. To everyone else, she is just plain cranky, if not outright nasty. She DOES act as if the White House is her RIGHT.
OK, she’s tough. She’s experienced. Not to mention opinionated and self-righteous. So were Vince Lombardi and General George Patton, and neither of them would have made admirable Chief Executives.
Demolition65, I peeked at your blog I was taken to when I clicked on your name, and I see that you are not just anti-Hillary, but you are also a staunch conservative, if not registered Republican. But don’t worry, I won’t hold that against you, and I also appreciate your input. I would like to make a correction, though… Maryblu did not state that Hillary is a miserable woman, and I read your post as implying that Maryblu had said that. I just don’t want to put words in her mouth; perhaps you were only agreeing that Maryblu intimated that Hillary has credentials. Okay, sorry, don’t mean to digress!
I do take issue with your description of the Clintons as both being miserable. They don’t seem miserable to me at all; they seem very happy and very successful, for the most part. But maybe you were using ‘miserable’ in a different context. Do they make you miserable? If so, why? I see that you are very upset about Bill having an extramarital liaison, so I would assume you have zero respect for anyone who does that. Hopefully your anger isn’t just limited to Bill Clinton simply because he is Bill Clinton and his beliefs are different from yours. I also disagree that Hillary enables him; I’m not sure what you mean by that statement.
You also said, “To everyone else, she is just plain cranky, if not outright nasty.” By “everyone else,” do you mean everyone else who doesn’t like her? From what I see, a great many people don’t see her that way, so I can only assume you are talking about her political or personal opponents.
You agree that she is tough and experienced, and since you don’t seem to like her at all personally or politically, I will take those two adjectives to heart as something you and I have in common. As to your description of her being “opinionated” and “self-righteous,” I will also agree with you to a certain extent, but this is also something I see in every one of the other candidates in both parties. Perhaps all four of those qualities, whether we like them or not, are things that politicians feel they must have in order to run for President of the United States.
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I can’t thank both of you enough for leaving comments. Like I said, this is my first foray into Blogging like this, and I feel like a real idiot when I fight with WordPress formatting! I am thrilled when I am able to have intelligent discussions with people, especially those who have vastly different opinions and perspectives from my own. I learn so much from everyone I talk to.
